tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post116465112626247424..comments2023-09-02T10:44:53.466-05:00Comments on I Stalk Life: Surfacing.Stalker Angiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04741846578381749451noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164815735367655472006-11-29T09:55:00.000-06:002006-11-29T09:55:00.000-06:00So sorry to hear about your situation. I have bee...So sorry to hear about your situation. I have been there - Zoloft worked very well for me(but it made me put on a little weight). Effexor is good (so I have heard), as is Lexipro (which made a world of difference in a friend of mine). It does take awhile to get the meds into your system, but don't be afraid to try them all until you find one that makes you feel human again.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164815117349711502006-11-29T09:45:00.000-06:002006-11-29T09:45:00.000-06:00I feel you on the frazzle dahling! (My last post.....I feel you on the frazzle dahling! (My last post...November 8th? I think)<BR/>I just wanted to let you in on this website I found since you're now "one of us" http://www.crazymeds.org/<BR/>It's a website run by med patients instead of pharmecudical companies and talks about actual side effects in actual life context. It will at the very least entertain you. <BR/>Personally, I started on Celexa, but gained oh, 30 lbs in about 2 months (great for my depression!) <BR/>So then I was moved to a combination of Lexapro and Wellbutrin. Which is much better, but still not quite right for my specific brand of crazy. <BR/>Things nobody told me about meds?: Expect trial and error for a few months. Pay attention to your side effects and don't try to justify them as something else (as I did). Don't skip days and take them erratically because then they don't work and you are just wasting time (ooooh yeah - that was me too).<BR/>Love comin at ya from the West CoastAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164748046944109432006-11-28T15:07:00.000-06:002006-11-28T15:07:00.000-06:00I can totally relate to the brain doing weird shit...I can totally relate to the brain doing weird shit thanks to stress. Mine's supposed to be getting better but I swear thanks to stress at home everything's getting worse. I found five cups of cold coffee around the house in various places where I clearly intended to accomplish something today and promptly forgot about it to get a coffee refill...<BR/><BR/>Hang in, babe, and yep, tell the doc EVERY DAMNED THING. Meanwhile, toss us some inane conversations between you and the hubby. We like it like that :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164744768021593962006-11-28T14:12:00.000-06:002006-11-28T14:12:00.000-06:00{{zap}} Cattle prod. You can't leave. We'll stalk ...{{zap}} Cattle prod. <BR/><BR/>You can't leave. We'll stalk you right back. There's no escaping. But no pressure, eh?<BR/><BR/>Wishing you the best with the meds, finding that even keel, and dealing with everything. Keep on keeping on, and catch us up when you can.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164742363714989462006-11-28T13:32:00.000-06:002006-11-28T13:32:00.000-06:00Angie, do what your friends are telling you! :p I...Angie, do what your friends are telling you! :p I mean as far as telling the doc everything so that something can be found that works for you. I want you to be well. Even that conversation with doc shows your humor still coming through! Update even when you have nothing to say except maybe that you're just slogging through the day. It may help.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164724392362319702006-11-28T08:33:00.000-06:002006-11-28T08:33:00.000-06:00Baby steps, Angie, baby steps.I miss being stalked...Baby steps, Angie, baby steps.<BR/><BR/>I miss being stalked. Sort of comforting, in a strange way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164688579773069552006-11-27T22:36:00.000-06:002006-11-27T22:36:00.000-06:00Hell, I came over here for tips on stalking the Ha...Hell, I came over here for tips on stalking the Harlot (who will be in L.A. soon, 5 min from my house. So close in fact that I could probably throw rocks or Latern Moon straights at her hotel window)<BR/><BR/>But I read your post and I completely know where you are at lady. Call your Dr. He'll probably tell you to start taking it at night, or he'll adjust your dose, or put you on a new med. (prozac doesn't work for everyone. It didn't for me) Don't forget to tell him everything about how you've been feeling. Everything (this helps with the dose/med adjustment)<BR/><BR/>Also, if there is a counselor nearby call one. You may have to go through a few to find a good fit. Ask your Dr. for a reccommendation too. Counseling in conjunction with medication is the best way to manage/overcome stress and depression. The therapist may be able to help you with new coping techniques AND grief counseling. Plus it's really a nice thing to talk to someone whose only interest is in helping you.<BR/><BR/>Does TX have state disability? Your Dr. may be able to put you on that for a little while in order to get you to a level place. Ask him.<BR/><BR/>My heart goes out to you. I've been in that frightening, frustrating place. Email me from my website if you have any other questions.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164681904110773382006-11-27T20:45:00.000-06:002006-11-27T20:45:00.000-06:00De-lurking to say-Be well, Angie and thanks for no...De-lurking to say-<BR/><BR/>Be well, Angie and thanks for not shutting down your blog. We would all miss it.<BR/><BR/>LaurenLauren Parker- Gillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18066180838188928042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164677329039455072006-11-27T19:28:00.000-06:002006-11-27T19:28:00.000-06:00You can't just disappear from blogland. Dork. Yo...You can't just disappear from blogland. Dork. You know there are some of us who'd just drag you back here kicking and screaming anyways.<BR/><BR/>We got home this afternoon, will post in the next couple of days. Hubby's off tomorrow, but will be working Wed., so I'll definitely be bugging you then. (Wait, should I have given you early warning? Oops.)Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09058077929485494905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164673299721854662006-11-27T18:21:00.000-06:002006-11-27T18:21:00.000-06:00If your doc is a family practice doc or an interni...If your doc is a family practice doc or an internist, s/he may not be totally up to speed on the anti-depressant scene. I think Prozac is the drug of first choice, but there are others that work very very well. Everyone's chemistry is a little different, so it takes some trial and error. After Prozac kept me from sleeping -- and I even tried taking it before I went to bed, as another poster suggested (which you should try, it might work for you) -- my shrink moved me to Zoloft and eventually Celexa. The Celexa doesn't have the negative sexual side effects (sorry, possibly TMI, but you need to know as much as possible). Best of luck and hoping you feel better. We'll come here no matter what.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164668643714833752006-11-27T17:04:00.000-06:002006-11-27T17:04:00.000-06:00Did you REALLY think I didn't notice the lack of "...Did you REALLY think I didn't notice the lack of "Stalker Angie" comments on my blog? ;-)<BR/><BR/>I hope things start to perk up soon, or percolate up soon, if you're partial to coffee.<BR/><BR/>-RyanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164667489469191222006-11-27T16:44:00.000-06:002006-11-27T16:44:00.000-06:00Cattle prods can be fun!Cattle prods can be fun!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164662751308618692006-11-27T15:25:00.000-06:002006-11-27T15:25:00.000-06:00Hang in there Stalker Angie, I've been reading you...Hang in there Stalker Angie, I've been reading your Blog for a while now. Please post when you can and read when you can...I'm thinking good thoughts for you and your hubby.Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975870950167477454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164662013832427882006-11-27T15:13:00.000-06:002006-11-27T15:13:00.000-06:00Ya know, nagging is what I do...*hugs*Ya know, nagging is what I do...<BR/><BR/>*hugs*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164660539590544172006-11-27T14:48:00.000-06:002006-11-27T14:48:00.000-06:00I have been through the adjusting-to-meds part of ...I have been through the adjusting-to-meds part of this, so I sympathize. I do hope it helps you once you get used to it. On the even keel note, that's true too. I say that AD meds don't get you off the roller coaster...but the peaks and valleys will seem a little smaller, and sometimes that's enough.<BR/><BR/>Oh...been through the job loss thing too, and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for both of you.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there to Stalk Another Day, SA. We don't need a Perky Stalker for every post - a Serious but Strong Stalker is just fine with us. Take care.Plum Texanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04049304632977462954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164657085810465262006-11-27T13:51:00.000-06:002006-11-27T13:51:00.000-06:00Angie, I've been reading your blog for a while. S...Angie, I've been reading your blog for a while. So sorry about all the upheaval in your life.<BR/><BR/>I DO like your doctor. It sounds like he didn't lose his common sense and his "people sense" when he went through med school (so many do, it seems...)<BR/><BR/>Sending good vibes, karma and hugs your way.<BR/><BR/>Phyllis MAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164656681466255292006-11-27T13:44:00.000-06:002006-11-27T13:44:00.000-06:00Oh, sweetie! I'm so glad to see you back up here,...Oh, sweetie! I'm so glad to see you back up here, and also that you went to see your doc. I'm the same way about letting things go and not going to see the medical professionals, but you know, sometimes it's needed!<BR/><BR/>And just to "ditto" what is above, you shouldn't feel like you always have to be funny or happy -- life isn't always like that (as you know). As it is, your conversation with the dr. cracked me up.<BR/><BR/>HUGS TO YOU!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164656467211213892006-11-27T13:41:00.000-06:002006-11-27T13:41:00.000-06:00I've missed reading you this month. I would miss y...I've missed reading you this month. I would miss you a lot if you were gone. Ha, I read through all your archives even, so I could get my Stalker Angie fix.<BR/>I'm so sorry things have been so crappy for you. This is a really stupid question, but have you tried taking the stuff at night, instead of in the morning? I had a similar reaction to a similar medication, except I had to take it first thing in the morning or I would be Up. All. Night.<BR/><BR/>And if you're getting such weird side effects from Prozac, there are other drugs that your doc can try you on. They definitely helped me a lot. It's that even keel thing you're talking about, although I did not get the sluggishness. They made my emotions not swing wildly about and once the emotions calmed down, I could cope with everyday stuff so much better.Big Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13669587398699403481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11431508.post-1164656260311904012006-11-27T13:37:00.000-06:002006-11-27T13:37:00.000-06:00And why do your posts always have to be the happy ...And why do your posts always have to be the happy kind? Its your blog. It's an extention of you and if you are not feeling merry then post it. Post and say this is one of those days. And then we can let you know Hey it's ok to have one of those days ........even more than once in a row. <BR/><BR/>And then we can ((((((((HUGS)))))))) the stuffing out of ya.<BR/><BR/>Just take it one day, hour or minute at a time, whichever makes it possible for you and know there's a bunch of us out here who care.Lady Dragonsingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05324716989818338225noreply@blogger.com